The inner marriage

The inner marriage

A client has been growing up in an environment where the mother was constantly pleasing the father. Who as a character was more dominant. Adjusting herself to his needs, putting aside her own. Afraid for the consequences when she would stand up. Addicted to his love. At the expense of her self love.

My client being a child seeing all this, has created the belief that this is how a wife/woman should be in a relationship. Sacrificing.

To compensate this "weakness" she has developed a part in herself, that beliefs it needs to be very strong. To do everything by herself. Because that is safe and will secure her from not getting trapped into this sacrificing behavior.

But since this " I need to sacrifice myself belief", is still in her system it does continue to come up, the moment she enters a relationship. No escape there in whatever way.

During the session I feel how she feels imprisoned, in hell
With these opposites constantly determining her behavior on a subconscious level. Pushing and pulling. Fighting each other. Creating opposite feelings and beliefs. Making her confused. Not able to trust her intuition.

While giving the session, creating the space, I can feel the energies shifting. 

At the end I get an image of her feminine part (vulnerability) standing next to her masculine part (strength). 

The feminine part in connection with her own need, asks the masculine part to be her spokesman. The part that translates her feelings and needs into words and actions. So she can feel protected in a natural way.

They have joined forces instead of fighting against each other. 

And I know that this client is on her way to the inner marriage...which will definitely change her relationships with men.

Letter to (my) self

Letter to (my) self

The Voice

The Voice

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